We've grown apart very recently and she hasn't seen me in weeks. Since I last saw her, I've cut my hair, had it straightened and started using newer makeup. Now, whenever I post photos of myself on Facebook, she comments that they look nothing like me and goes so far to say that I've Photoshopped them.
I want to say she means well, but it just doesn't seem friendly that every comment she makes is the same "That doesn't look like you at all." It's almost embarrassing to have that on nearly every profile picture and it makes me feel fake. I wish she would have something better to say about me.
What should I do about this? Confront her?
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
ok so she obviously has a serious problem with you.. she is probobly jealous and perhaps there is a significant reason why the two of you have fallen apart?...
1) You can always delete nasty photo comments, although admittedly they do nothing for your self asteem...
2) If you havn't talked its probobly not such a good idea to go confronting her.. it would only make it worse and I assume you dont want to be opening your heart up to someone who you see little of?
3) chat to her, and see how she is with you. tell her you havnt seen her in a while. and subtly comment back saying you have altered since you both last met.
if this does not help, then yes, confront her. what she is doing is bitchy and uncaring of your feelings. you then should probobly tell her you fear you are growing apart and all her unkind comments do is confirm this and prevent you from moving on and such.
hope this helps!!
R
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
aww thats brilliant! first stepping stone completed wooo!
glad i could be of some help xx Report It
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Yes confront her and tell her how its bothering you and how it makes you feel. Best of luck!
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Just post that it's been a while since she's seen you. Simple. True. Done.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
never have friends who are girls. DRAMA!
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Why don't you see her and show her the changes you've made so she'll stop doing it? Oh...and stop using photoshop.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
yeah you shoudl tell her if she doesnt have any thing nice to say dont say any thing at all! i think shes jealous
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
confront her :-)
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Tell her that that was the point. That you don't want to look like you used to. That is why you went through changing outside appearances. Don't really worry too much about it, she is just jealous of you.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
then stop sending her photos........
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
get a new best friend
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Yes, you should confront her about it. Tell her face to face that if she were really your friend she would stop saying such negative things about you.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
smack her
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
i see what you mean
but it shouldnt matter
its just a picture
you can delete the comments if you dont like them
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
punch her in the eye! after it swells and turns a myriad of colors tell her "gee, that just doesn't look like you at all!"
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
First of all, delete her comments. She seems very rude.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
YES! She sounds like a jealous, bitter, ex girlfriend to me. Do not let her put you down any longer, she is being petty. Move on, some people are just not worth our love and friendship.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Stop being passive and let her know how you feel if you dont she will only continue to do this to you. Stand you ground firm and tall. If she doesnt stop or understand shes not really ur friend.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Maybe she has a problem accepting the fact that you have changed. Or maybe she is jealous that you have changed for better and she is worried how she is turning out. The Photoshop comment may possibly have been a compliment in a way, but confront her about it. Say you have/are changing/ed and she needs to move on and comment about something else, like how beautiful your hair looked, or how much fun it looks like you were having.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
confront her is a harsh word. Im usually a mean guy but i think sometimes friends do these things because something else is bothering them like maybe shes angry that you dont hang out as much anymore. talk to her let her know that she hurts you when she says things like that. I bet you she will change her tune real quick. sometimes people are just mean because they become too comfortable telling their friends anything.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Yea. you could tell her how your feeliing. Just remind her that it has been a while since you two last saw eachother and people change. She might be making those comments because she secretly wishes that she could look as good as you. Maybe you two could get together and you could let her know how you are feeling and then give her a makeover!
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Tell her that you've recently had your hair done and started using more make up and if she'd have seen you lately then she'd see for herself. Let her know that you don't appreciate her comments because she's supposed to make you feel good about yourself if she's your friend!
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Sounds like a hater to me. If you want the friendship, tell her your concerns, then if she doesn't cease the rants on "face book" end the friendship.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Yes.. tell her how she is making you feel. If she doesnt understand, then she is not a good friend to you and you shouldnt bother being friends with her anymore.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
I think you should definitely confront her, if she is a true friend she will understand and take your feelings into consideration. Hopefully things between you two will be ok.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Yes confront her, and I would not be using the term 'best' friend if this is the way she is treating you.
'best' friends are supportive, encouraging and loving, also honest, and they don't embarass you in front of others.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Yes, you should definately confront her. Don't worry about hurting her feelings. As long as you don't go too overboard with what you tell her, it's not going to be an issue. Just be careful that you don't lose a good friend. Take it from me, it's not east finding another good friend, so if she's really a good friend to you, you should do whatever you can to maintain the relationship.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Girls are the worst, she is jealous of you, confront her, if she is your best friend arrange to meet up with her and show her your new look, she might be judgemental, but just remember that it is jealously, time for a new best friend.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
this is one jealous girl! Just tell her if she can't say anything nice than dont say anything at all and that she is starting to sound like a broken record, you heard her the first time.Tell her you like the new you so get use to it.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
will till her you been working hard on my new look and you can till her to say something nicer
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
you should definitely confront her - you know, she's probably just jealous. when family or friends go through big changes like that and they are changes for the better most people are just jealous and can't accept it. if she wants to treat you like crap becaus eyou made a change in your style then she doesn't deserve to have you as a friend.
What to do about a best friend who makes embarrassing comments?
Tell her u have no problem she joking around , but when it comes to serious business , that u will appreciated if she's more supportive , if she wasnt ur best friend i would advice to tell her to shut the ***** up , but that will ruin your friendship.U still can confront her while being very professional in order to preserve ur friendship but still cross ur point very clearly.
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